Happy Memorial Day!
It has been over 2 months since the quarantine started here in KY. It has been quite a rollercoaster of emotions and a mixture of experiences - both had and missed. It has touched everyone to some degree - whether it be physically, emotionally, or financially.
In my family, both of my children had graduations that were supposed to happen - which didn’t happen in the traditional sense - and never may. My daughter’s graduation was changed to an alternative one where there are groups of 28 teens in cars with their families. We will be going to 3 different parking lots to hear the principal’s speech, get a picture taken in cap and gown and then hearing the class president’s speech where they will turn their tassel. My parents will not be able to be there in person, graduation parties won’t be celebrated the same way and the class of 2020 won’t be together again - unless they are allowed to go ahead with their group graduation - which is tentatively scheduled for July or August at the college arena. I am not feeling hopeful. We did get to decorate a door for her, submit an ad for the yearbook, attend Obama’s graduation ceremony, and have gotten her family presents. Not sent out are the invitations from Josten’s to family members - although I am tempted to scratch out the original plans and write in the alternative ones as a comment on the times.
My son decided to skip his Bachelor’s graduation last year and was going to just go to his Master’s graduation ceremony this spring. But that obviously was canceled or rather postponed until December. He is one of the lucky graduates who has a job that still wants him to start on time and he has moved to DC, and will be starting his new position this week. If his graduation ceremony does actually happen in December, will he or his classmates who have scattered to the wind come back for the ceremony? Or as I suspect, will they have moved on to the next stage in their lives…
Both my husband and I have been blessed with the ability to continue to work during this time when so many were furloughed or lost their jobs. I am thankful for not being in the position so many are in - having to try to figure out how to pay a mortgage or health insurance without having a job. I know some people who didn’t qualify for unemployment payments because they hadn’t been able to work enough hours the previous year, or because they were students and their jobs weren’t designed to be permanent positions. I know others who are making more money by being furloughed and getting the government benefits of $600/week in addition to their unemployment insurance than they ever did while they were employed. I know others who have been deemed “essential” and stayed at work for close to the minimum wage - and risked being exposed to the virus so that they could support themselves and their families.
This health pandemic has again brought up the health insurance debate. What happens to health care when insurance is tied to employment and that employment goes away? I choose to work outside of insurance by charging an accessible monthly membership - primary care is available this way regardless of employment status - but it doesn’t cover hospitalizations, ER visits, etc. In an age of large hospital systems, I was reduced to buying masks and cleaning supplies on Amazon and eBay at very inflated prices since I hadn’t bought enough from traditional medical retailers in the last few months and they were allocating these based on prior purchases. I have been able to easily ensure social distancing since my office is low volume by design. I was able to easily pivot and offer Telehealth visits because I am an independent practitioner and I had already been doing some of these since I opened my DPC office several years ago. My lease is up this month and I am considering relocating to a more economical location for the next few years. Lacking sufficient PPE, Danielle has been working from home for the last few months. Like all other small businesses, we have had to pivot.
No matter your financial situation, the COVID-19 pandemic has taken a toll on all of us emotionally. People who are at increased risk from dying from the virus due to age or health status are scared, feel isolated and are hurt that people are refusing to wear masks because they don’t like them, don’t think they will get sick or because they are upset that the government has closed down the economy and is telling them what to do. People who haven’t known anyone who has been infected with COVID-19 and/or live in areas where much economic damage has been done by the closures, are upset by all the restrictions that have been in place and the effect that it has had on their quality of life. Being in isolation for several months is really hard. I think no matter our political party or personal situation, we would all like to believe it to be true that we can go back to our regular way of life soon. But wanting something to be true, doesn’t necessarily make it so.
As we proceed to open up our economies, more people will get sick. The point of the shutdowns was to “flatten the curve” but even a flat curve has new infections - just not to the degree that they are crippling our medical systems’ ability to handle them. It is a very delicate balance trying to balance people’s emotional and financial health with their physical health - when you have a virus that can be in someone for up to 2 weeks before they get sick, if they get sick at all! The flattening has bought us time to get more PPE, work towards developing a vaccine, and learn a little more about the best way to treat it - although much is still controversial and much work remains to be done.
The next test is how people will respond as we reopen. It is my hope that people will wear masks and still take some precautions to avoid spreading the virus. If everyone does this out of respect for each other and the workers who are unable to avoid customers who aren’t wearing masks - then fewer people will get sick and possibly lose their lives, and businesses will have a much better chance of staying open and the economy will have a better chance of staying up and running. If you are having trouble using a mask I would suggest you watch one of my recent videos on
“Mask Wearing 101”.
If you are not wearing a mask out of personal preference, I would ask that you reconsider.
My last blog post was almost 2 months ago when we were just at the beginning of this. And as I predicted - much has changed in this time. At that point in time, there weren’t any confirmed cases of COVID-19 in the greater Cincinnati area. As of today, according to the Hamilton County and Northern Kentucky Health Departments, there have been 3,462 confirmed cases here. I am sure that there have been many more people who have had it than that though. Testing has been an issue - many people were told initially that they weren’t sick enough to get tested and the only people getting tested were those who were sick enough to possibly get admitted or if they were healthcare professionals. Also, many people probably have had it and haven’t been aware of it since not everyone develops symptoms. I am thankful that we haven’t seen the extent and severity of disease that others have seen in other areas of the country and world and I hope and pray that our leaders show wisdom as they guide us through this next phase of the COVID-19 pandemic, and that they are able to find a balance between apparently competing interests. I pray that we are able to come together as a people and fight the virus instead of each other, and through being united move through this period with as little damage to our health, economy and psyches as possible.
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